.Growing up?.

I wanted to write about my obsession with Cosmic Encounter *geek mode : ON!*
Just before that, I was browsing few blogs;
Some are friends, acquaintance or few peeps whose blogs I've followed ages ago.

Then it dawned upon me --
Here I am wanting to blog about Cosmic Encounter when most of them talk about babies (clothes, EBM, breastfeeding), cooking, cutlery, dishware and tableware, cushions and etc.
All about building a family.

Here I am, wanting to talk about a board game. Yes, a BOARD GAME.
While they are talking on how to become a better mother/wife/parents.
How could they relate to me anymore? It's like a chicken talking to a duck.
Beza bagai langit dan bumi.
Kan?

Feeling a bit depressed as I write this entry, I must admit.
I've also realised I  know nothing about building a family.
I didn't bother to check out anything about parenting, pregnancy -- you know those stuffs.
Back then, I was busy telling myself I had a miserable life that I don't think it matters any more to prepare for such things.
Just the other day I was reading a friend's status on Facebook and found out that you must avoid lots of foods during pregnancy especially during the first trimester.
And I know nothing about this. Nada.

Did you guys panic when you first starting a relationship as husband and wife? As a family?
Did you reach out to family, parents, doctors or friends?

How do you guys get started?
Should I push the panic button now?